I took back my fiancee after he cheated on me, but did i do it too easily?
Loli Lace asked:
My fiancee…i guess, now back to boyfriend status, is in the army stationed at Fort Drum, New York.
My fiancee…i guess, now back to boyfriend status, is in the army stationed at Fort Drum, New York.
I live in Chicago, and after spending a week with me, he went to his mom’s house and he cheated on me, it was this HUGE fiasco.
Well, I told him the morning that he cheated on me that we were expecting a baby, and our wedding plans were always messing up on us.
But, after a week, I fear that i took him back too easily–especially since it was a very stressful and horrible week, where he was “with” this girl and trying to figure out if he wanted another girl.
Confusing, right? Well–he said he wanted to be with me, he was sincere, i knew it was the truth, but I fear that I took him back too easily. Even if we fought and i made his life a living hell and his mom wouldn’t talk to him or anything.
well i think the pregnancy is the real reason he wants to get back with you, be careful in the future of more cheating, because i think this is very likely
I personally think, that you should leave him and find someone else. Dont you watch Maury. The guy or girl cheats, they take them back and a month later they are back on the show for the same thing. SInce you took him back so easily after cheating on him, he probably thinks that you cannot be without him. So he can probably cheat on you again and he will think you will take him back. Cheating is just like lying. What makes you think that he will not do it again?
You deserve better than that! I know i went through it too. I did the opposite. I have a 20 month old son and he was 15 months when he did it. He does not deserve you or the baby. Remember once a cheater always a cheater. What happens if he does it again? You will always doubt him when he is gone. Sorry to put a negative spin on this but not all in life is good
Hey Girl, Its me Sonia……
But honey you deserve better…..Just because there is a child involve does not mean you should get back together, it should for your benefit aswell. I don’t think he was sincere even when he told you that he wants to be with you. I mean he cheated, while you over here waiting for him. I don think you should take him back. 
I can’t believe this happened to you…im sorry
Hey by the way when did you find out you were preg?
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_Sonia