Should I stay try to convince him to go or do what i want to do and leave, would i be wrong?
GoddessNileah asked:
I want to go to my cousin’s wedding in New York and my husband doesn’t want to go because he’s planned a social gathering with some of his friends that he sees every holiday and family occasion. All of my familly lives in New York and is going to be at my cousin’s wedding. I haven’t seen my family or been home in 2yrs. i don’t have anybody but my mother who stay’s here and i go to all of his family gatherings
I want to go to my cousin’s wedding in New York and my husband doesn’t want to go because he’s planned a social gathering with some of his friends that he sees every holiday and family occasion. All of my familly lives in New York and is going to be at my cousin’s wedding. I haven’t seen my family or been home in 2yrs. i don’t have anybody but my mother who stay’s here and i go to all of his family gatherings
i think it’s wrong of him not to go, because as you say you go to all of his family gatherings, but in the same vein you really don’t want a grumpy man with you at a wedding. if he doesn’t want to go & he’s made to there’s a good chance he’ll be annoyed the whole time & you’ll spend the wedding coping with his behavior rather than enjoying your family.
He is selfish! You need to go to the wedding. Go without him. And have a wonderful time!!!!!
u should go even if he dont blood is thicker than water that is your family i would leave him at home and go and hopefully he can understand how important it is also make him aware how important it is to u
For goodness sake — go to the wedding on your own — and enjoy the time with your family! Explain to your husband how you can always visit later with his buddies, but the occasion as important as a wedding in your family (especially since you have not seen them for a couple of years and MISS them terribly) means a LOT to you. GO! have fun, and be with your family.